Why doesn't the system change? - Adoption.com Forums

Here, the squeaky mouse gets blacklisted, that is why nobody speaks out. I know it seems odd to come from me with Chubbs, one of the few cases I know of where the system did what it should have done, but my county is a mess.

If you want my honest truth, it is all about money. If they really followed the ASFA, which is not the best guidelines anyway, why even give 15 months to some families, but if they followed it to a T, and there weren't so many loop holes in it, children like my girls would have been adopted, and been able to live in a good and loving family. But, had they terminated at 15 months and let me adopt a month later, that is what 13 months that they would not have needed case workers, SAR evaluators, home aids, judges, lawyers. See what I mean. There'd be a lot less folks involved if they just simply followed the ASFA.

I highly recommend you read Nobody's CHildren By Elizabeth Bartholet. You'd be amazed what the people-in-the-know really do know and believe about the system.

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